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“Well, that’s a straight up lie. Lots of men fall in love with sluts, especially since sluts don’t have that desperate vibe.”
It’s such a clear case of projection – men DO NOT CARE if the woman has a desperate vibe. In fact, if they want to fuck her, they’d be glad she does. Same goes for confidence. We don’t like clingy women not because they are desperate for sex (whooray!) but because they will suck in all our time and energy. You may be a world class slut and still become clingy if you feel that your men has “long-term potential”. It’s completely unrelated.
Women dislike desperate men because they assume (rightfully) they don’t get laid. Men don’t care if you get laid. A lot of men are put off (not to be confused with “intimidated”!!) by an overly sexual woman, too. Not everybody likes sluts, some men actually want to have a warm/protective/patriarchal feeling towards their women, and being a sexually aggressive slut can be a huge put off.
Susan Walsh says: August 11, 2010 at 10:29 pm @Hamby Is the girl who really wants a relationship but keeps choosing asshole alphas a slut? Probably not, even if she’s had sex with ten or twelve of them. Her intention is to get a relationship out of the deal, and she’s just choosing poorly. Hamby, I think this is a really important point. Intentions matter. And I do think men know perfectly well than any young woman can be taken in by a cad or two. But for good men who are already on the defensive about cads cleaning up, this becomes problematic very quickly. Many would say that they’d rather hold out for a woman who learned that lesson very quickly. Choosing cads 12 times – that tells me a woman is not learning from her experiences, and that signals decreased LTR fitness, IMO.
Susan Walsh says: August 11, 2010 at 10:30 pm @pops It’s imperative that feminists deny biological differences between the sexes. Without that underpinning, the whole theology tumbles down.
Reinholt says: August 11, 2010 at 10:54 pm @Susan
I think you hit the nail on the head. A woman who needs to fail 12 or more times to learn something is not the kind of person you can trust in a long-term relationship. I mean, if you touch a stove and it burns you 12 times in a row, you’re just a fool.
